Durban, Helen Lorraine (nee Callahan) Returned to the Lord on July 13th, 2009, age 90; Beloved wife of the late Charles L. Durban Sr,; Dear mother of Ellen (Thomas Sr.) Stanley, Charles (Penny), Edward (Joyce), Stephen (Debbie), Thomas (Beth) and James (Terry) Durban; Dear grandmother of Mary Ellen Stanley, Thomas Stanley Jr., Brian, Colleen, Heather and Ryan Durban, Chris (Katie), Clint and Mark Van Zant, Eric, Maria, Danielle and Kelsey Durban; Dear great-grandmother of Kyle and McKenna Juan, CJ, Will and Caroline Van Zant; Dear sister of Connie Stapf and Dorothy Sattley; Dear cousin of Fr. Bernard Johnson; Dear aunt of Sue Irwin, the Scannell, Burr, Stapf and Sattley families; Dear friend of Ann Rauch for 71 years and so many others; Helen was born Feb. 22nd, 1919 to Daniel and Genevieve Callahan. She was a member of the St. James the Greater for 57years. Since 2002, Helen has been warmed by the love and holiness of the Carmelite Sisters and staff and residents of St. Agnes Home, Kirkwood, Mo. Her devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Blessed Mother overflowed into a wonderful ministry of prayer for the dying at St. Agnes. She will be remembersd with great love and admiration by so many. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the St. Agnes Home. Funeral Mass Fri. July 17, 10:00am at St. Agnes Home 10341 Manchester; Interment Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery; Visitation Thur. 3-8pm at Jay B. Smith Funeral Home 7456 Manchester;